I just came back from a community that holds the secret to human survival. It’s a place where women run the show, have sex to say hello, and play rules the day.

The speaker frames her return from fieldwork as a “discovery” with broad implications: a society whose social cohesion and conflict-management might illuminate “human survival.” The emphasis on female authority, sexual contact as a greeting, and a culture of play points to an argument that cooperation can be built through embodied intimacy, reduced aggression, and frequent affiliative interaction rather than rigid hierarchy. The provocative phrasing (“have sex to say hello”) is likely meant to challenge Western assumptions about sexuality, power, and civility, and to suggest that alternative social arrangements can stabilize groups and defuse tension. It also hints at a critique of male-dominated, competitive models of social organization.