Some people believe holding on and hanging in there are signs of great strength. However, there are times when it takes much more strength to know when to let go and then do it.

The saying challenges a common cultural equation of endurance with strength. It argues that perseverance can be admirable, but it is not automatically virtuous—especially when “hanging in there” means remaining in a harmful relationship, clinging to an unworkable plan, or refusing to accept change. The deeper claim is that discernment is a form of courage: recognizing when continued effort is self-defeating, and then acting on that recognition, can require more resolve than simply continuing out of habit, fear, pride, or social pressure. In this sense, “letting go” becomes an active, disciplined choice rather than a passive surrender.