Those who in quarrels interpose
Must often wipe a bloody nose.
Must often wipe a bloody nose.
About This Quote
John Gay’s couplet is a moral tag from his fable “The Dog and the Fox,” part of his widely read collection *Fables* (first issued in 1727). Gay, a prominent Augustan poet and satirist in the circle of Swift and Pope, wrote fables in a plain, proverbial style meant to convey practical lessons about human behavior. In this particular fable, two animals are engaged in a quarrel; a third party attempts to step between them and is injured for the trouble. The line became a common English proverb warning that peacemaking or meddling in others’ disputes can bring harm to the would-be mediator.
Interpretation
The couplet cautions against intervening in conflicts that are not yours, especially when passions are high and neither side welcomes interference. “Interpose” can mean both to mediate and to meddle; Gay’s point is that even well-intentioned intervention may be punished by both parties, because the interloper becomes an easy target or is blamed for taking sides. As a fable-moral, it generalizes from a small, vivid physical consequence (“a bloody nose”) to a broader social truth: disputes have their own momentum, and outsiders risk reputational or literal injury by stepping in without authority, consent, or a clear ability to stop the fight.
Variations
Those who in quarrels interpose / Must often wipe a bloody nose.
Source
John Gay, “The Dog and the Fox,” in *Fables* (London, 1727).




