Quote #240
No one beneath you can offend you. No one your equal would.
Jan L. Wells
About This Quote
This quote needs no introduction—at least for now. We're working on adding more context soon.
Interpretation
The saying reframes “being offended” as a matter of perceived status and self-command. If an insult comes from someone “beneath” you, it is implicitly unworthy of your attention; taking offense would grant it undue power. If it comes from an equal, the line suggests that a person of comparable maturity and dignity would not stoop to gratuitous offense in the first place. The aphorism thus functions as advice in emotional discipline: protect your peace by refusing to outsource your self-respect to others’ words, and by expecting civility among true peers. It also hints at a moral ideal of equality—real equals treat one another with restraint and respect.




