Quote #197688
This is the final test of a gentleman: his respect for those who can be of no possible service to him.
William Lyon Phelps
About This Quote
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Interpretation
Phelps frames “gentlemanliness” not as polish, pedigree, or public reputation, but as an ethical reflex revealed when self-interest is absent. The “final test” is how one treats people who offer no advantage—those without wealth, status, influence, or utility. Respect here implies more than courtesy; it suggests recognizing equal human dignity and resisting the transactional habit of valuing others only for what they can provide. The line also critiques social climbing and performative civility: manners shown to the powerful may be strategic, but kindness to the powerless is character. In a modern register, it anticipates ideas about moral integrity, empathy, and the treatment of marginalized or overlooked individuals.



