Quote #94580
I have not lived as a woman. I have lived as a man. I've just done what I damn well wanted to, and I've made enough money to support myself, and ain't afraid of being alone.
Katharine Hepburn
About This Quote
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Interpretation
Hepburn frames her independence in the blunt, gendered terms available in her era: to “live as a man” means claiming freedoms—sexual, professional, financial, and social—more readily granted to men than to women. The quote rejects prescribed femininity (deference, domestic dependence, fear of solitude) and substitutes self-determination: doing what one wants, earning one’s own living, and refusing to treat partnership as a necessity. Its force lies in the unapologetic tone (“damn well”), which turns what might be read as transgression into a statement of principle. It also reflects Hepburn’s public persona—forthright, self-possessed, and resistant to Hollywood’s expectations of female stars.




